Coaching and submission: what's the connection? ๐ค Coaching teaches discipline. BDSM does as well. The difference is who holds the leash๐When a client comes to a coach, they want change but are resistant. What does a good coach do? Directs, punishes, reinforces results. Recognize the dynamics? ๐ Now for the question, What's harder, obeying or commanding? Write down which role you're in favor of. Maybe it's time to step outside the box.