Do you remember my last post? So I've made a survey and can tell you that it is accepted that the first step is made by a man. Therefore, the attention is one-sided - men write to women, and the reverse happens less oftenπ’ And also there are more men then women and they have to enter into unspoken competition for attention. And the only one who chooses it's a girl! (you have another situation here, don't you?πhe-he)